Hello Submissive blonde and welcome to the world of BDSM. I agree with Hamish above with his comments, take your time and get to know people first. dont give out phone numbers etc until you are sure in your own mind that the person your talking to is genuine, You should know your limits and these should form part of the negotiations with any Master you talk to. If they are genuine the will respect you for wanting to take your time. be well be safe and I wish you all the best with your search. I would be happy to help you out with any questions you have and also happy to mentor you.