Quote Originally Posted by Desperado View Post
I also recognize that a familiarity with people in a group leads to behavior such as what gracie described and I can certainly see her point. I personally do not take offense at anything I've seen her do. We each have our own "lines" that we don't want crossed but so far no one has come close to that with me. Maybe I view things enough differently that I'm in the minority as far as my behavior online. I have pretty much always held to the concept of being me, and doing the things online that I would do in person. My expectations of behavior online are reserved for me and the girl who does or will serve me.
I did not mean for my post to be construed as taking direct criticism for what Desperado posted. It is merely a reflection on my own behavior. I act very similarly o/l or r/l, and believe that my actions vary depending on the person or group i am with. If i am unfamiliar with someone, i will make every effort to be respectful upon meeting them. But those i know and feel comfortable with, i will be more open and free with how i express myself. Bottom line is i am also a people pleaser and would hope to not be a disappointment to myself or my One with my actions. I trust most of the people here and r/l to call me on it if i am stepping out of line, because in general it is not in my character to act that way.

All of that said, i believe it doesn't matter where you are. Be yourself in whatever way makes you comfortable, but be cognizant that there are always eyes watching whether you realize it or not ... and often, judgement on character or personality are made during that time.

Hugs to A/all who want them from this gracie girl.