Welcome indeed! There is fun and joy to be found here but it is not the worlds most quick-moving forum. Chat is the most active place, and also my favorite *grins*.
We are very lucky to have a lot of people here with many years of experience in 'this thing that we do', meaning that there is often someone who has been where you are, who can guide and point out things you may not have considered.. as well as a genuinely friendly, supportive group of kinksters... Have a look around, see if it's comfortable, please dont hesitate to send me a message if you can't find what you are looking for...

*blows a kiss and runs off*