Early Fantasies

[vistana]

Oh, and women liking to watch/read about/fantasize about two guys in bed together is hardly unusual. Just look at the slash fiction so many fanfic authors generate...!

Ah...slash fanfics...how i love thee *blush*

For as long as I can remember I've had fantasies about being kidnapped and tortured by a gang, or occasionally monsters, or giants. There was never anything sexual about the fantasies themselves, but i would squirm around on my bed, which i realize now was a clumsy method of masturbating.
It wasn't until many years later the the fantasies developed an overtly sexual nature.

[usedHil25]

I'm curious about what kind of bdsm related fantasies people had, before they learned anything about bdsm from outside sources. For example, in my very early teens, I had a fantasy about women in bikinis being tormented by gremlin-like creatures. I can't recall most of the details anymore, but I do remember that the cretures used the women as furniture, and stuffed various gooey substances down their bikini bottems. There was no nudity. I had PG-13 fantasies back then.

when I was in my early-mid teens I fantasized a few times about being raped by creatures with countless arms & legs & occasionally tentacles (way before I had seen any tentacle hentai). It was weird because I amf rom ahighly religious home & never had any real sexual interest or experience when I was younger. But occasionally I had these fantasies. It was never anything dull & simple like just making love to a guy I kinda liked. It was always getting abused & used by a group of multi-limbed creatures. I never quite got it at that age as I was very naive. But now, oh boy do I get it & wish I could really get it.

[ShyGuy1]

there was a Porky Pig cartoon where he gets taken captive, maybe he's underwater. He has his clothes pulled off of him.

Alright, that was very silly.

I also remember an English spy movie, the hero is in a castle. He's taken prisoner, metal clamps come around his arms and legs. Metal claws come out and pull his clothes off.

[VAMPIRELLA]

my first sexual fantasy was when i was in grade one. i remember being in a room with many hot guys surrounding me all naked including me. since i didn't know how a penis looked like then or what sex was i only fondled them.

later on in grade five or six i remember watching a video in school. i think it was a video for dangers in your neighbourhood and prevention of harm to children. the video was about a girl a few years older than me then (about 12 or 13 at the time) and she would frequently go to this mans house because he had this video camera that intrigued her and while she was playing with it he leaves and comes back with a little present for her. it's lingerie he wanted her to put on. she hesitated and said no and left. i suppose after that i would fantasize about being her and puting on the lingerie and then having sex with the man. the man was not attractive, he was fat, balding and his hair was white. i think after that the men in my fantasy are mostly unatractive, fat, old and lonley.

[Chuckdom19]

i think after that the men in my fantasy are mostly unatractive, fat, old and lonley.

There may be hope for "normal" men yet! (wide grin)


My first fantasy goes back to grade school. A mate and I had recently heard of the sinking of the Submarine Thresher, a horrible loss of all aboard. Somehow, the fantasy had me tied to a post being tortured on the sub underwater.... and led to me returning the favor to the bad guys. There was something about body modification and a yard hose reel too, but I think all boys are thinking of that when just starting puberty.

[Curtis]

There was something about body modification and a yard hose reel too, but I think all boys are thinking of that when just starting puberty.

:toofunny:

[magicalnymph]

Mine always involved abduction and rape of some sort usually by more than one person.

As well as the more tamed fantasies like police officers, teacher, just about anyone in authority.

["Roof"]

I'm curious about what kind of bdsm related fantasies people had, before they learned anything about bdsm from outside sources. For example, in my very early teens, I had a fantasy about women in bikinis being tormented by gremlin-like creatures. I can't recall most of the details anymore, but I do remember that the cretures used the women as furniture, and stuffed various gooey substances down their bikini bottems. There was no nudity. I had PG-13 fantasies back then.

The first bondage text I'd read was in some forgotten novel. Found the book on the shelf of out-of-state relatives when visiting them for a few days as a teenager. The book's only bondage incident had to do with a man standing over a 20-something woman who is stripped and spread-eagled on a bed. He's heating a pair of pliars over a cigarette lighter and then applies the tool to her nipple.

[asianlover]

wel uhmm okej here's my fantasy ...
wel uhmmm....
here it goes hihihi
okej i meet pretty asian gurl...
then we go go home{dont mind which one}
then we wil fight some time and then i wil kis here....
then i will take here cloths off and slap here as.
i wil then tie here hands together..and tie that to my {or here} bed.
then i will play with here..{i dont know if i must tell details so ask if you wanne details} i think i will beat here also many times ....and whip here......then i rape here{or not}..then i wil let here go ihhihihi... .

but i must say now...that i dont know if you have it..but somethims i have veryy strong fantasy of beating gurl almost to death i dont know why but i like blood and stufff..
btw i'm getting help for that with psgygo...
they say its because i watch horror movies when i'm little {hellraiser rulsss}..
but okej....that whas fantasy ask if you want some to need

[azraelle]

I have wanted to be suspended, with my hands spread apart--that was always very important because I felt that it would hurt more than to have them bound together--and whipped for nearly as long as I can remember, for trumped up or imaginary offenses. This was well before puberty, BTW. I first imagined my dad doing it, then others, eventually my wife (never actually happened), then by other fantasized women, preferably accompanied by going without food for several days as well. Or being dropped off on the outskirts of Las Vegas (a fairly small place in the early 60's), naked, and being forced to walk home (~4-5 miles), obviously barefoot, mostly at night, through the stickers and cacti, without food or water.

And no I wasn't abused as a child growing up, other than the occasional spanking, unless you count having to listen to my dad brow-beating my mother most of the time for her apparent (in his perfectionist eyes) weaknesses and foibles.

[tkk098]

yay, first post. Anyway. I started getting interests in bdsm a little bit before I turned 10, or right afterwards. Eitherway, about 8 years ago. The first things I tryed was self-bondage with whatever I could come up with, whether using clothing as a rope, or taking string necklaces. I grew interested in it quickly over time. I did not find out much more about the subject for a few years atleast. I've been a sub pretty much as long as I can remember because I loved being tied up, and was interested in knowing what it would be like to get screwed in the ass, by someone of either sex. I never really had the chance to become a dom. type of person cause I wasn't really ever given that chance in my middle school years. Hope I answered things o.o

[badspyro]

My first real bondage fantasy was also at the age of 10, after reading a book, which I later found out was written by L.J. smith, where I am female, in a swimsuit, standing in the middle of a room.
Then a woman walks up to me, and fits on a straitjacket and scuba mouthpiece in and adds on the goggles, while I am being bound and weighted along my body.
Finally i am put in a huge steel coffin, which is then filled with water, and my body floats in the center of the tank.
I am left there infinitely to go insane on my own, with no chance of freedom ever.

I didn't know much about the biology of it at the time, so it was rather simplistic. Sadly, the book is out of print now, although it was probably way too old for me at that point in time (or so my parents would have thought lol)
Badspyro

[Maliia]

Hi, I hope you don't mind my reply. I'm still very new here.

The experiences I read from this thread reminded me of many of my own. When I was 6 or 7 I would play with my brothers and I would always be the girl who got kidnapped by the indians or was held for ransom in the bank robbery or at the castle or whatever. I would pretend to fight but they would take old pantyhose and tie my hands behind me in a chair and my ankles to the legs of the chair. Another piece of pantyhose was usually tied through my mouth as a gag. I didn't know why I loved it so much, but I was always a little dissapointed when they finally untied me and let me go.

Then when I was 11 my best friend and I used to pretend we were sister animals. Sometimes we'd be wild cheetahs who got caught and put into cages where we would be trained for the circus. Other times we were stray puppy dogs who crawled around and barked and ate from a plate on the floor. It was never really sexual, but I definately felt something. I just never knew what it was. I always liked the feeling of pretending that the person I cared so much about was so helpless and that they could see me so helpless too. Even now I still have a serious puppygirl and ponygirl fetish.

I didn't really find out about real bdsm until I was like 15 and I found an old copy of an HOM magazine under the dumpster behind a grocery store. It was kind of smelly and in bad shape, but from the minute I saw the pictures of all of these beautiful naked girls tied up with rope and chained and with their mouths filled with gags I was in heaven. I couldn't stop imagining myself in those positions and I kept the magazine under my mattress until I was 18.

I also started having more fantasies about being kidnapped, or being part of a harem of girls in my high school for this really cute football player I liked where we were all cheerleaders by day but at night each of us had to wear a different color of lingerie and when we weren't satisfying him, we were free to play with each other.

Now I've had lots of real time play, mostly as a submissive, but my fantasies just keep getting more and more extreme. Though there are some things that I would never ever do in real life that make me so wet in my fantasy life, I've never seen anything wrong with making fantasies as extreme as you want them to be. After all, that's what they're there for.

Sorry to be so long. I hope to be more involved in your forum and to write some more stories that don't suck. Thank you.

[MasterRJ]

I thought that was a pretty good post. I never really played stuff like that. For some reason I've always just been really over protective of people in a situation of helplessness.

[Ranai]

I add myself to the list of women with fantasies about men dominating men. I revelled in such scenarios long before I had a clue about sex. As long as there were guys who got tied up / scared / imprisoned / enslaved / etc., I did not care much by whom. As long as there was a man who dropped to his knees, I did not care much before whom.

Some contributors to this thread have mentioned movies... I even found the incredibly silly torture scene between Count Rugen and Westley in 'The Princess Bride' quite sexy. Not to mention the first scenes, when Westley gets ordered about by bossy Buttercup and always responds with 'As you wish'. Sigh. (Later she gets kidnapped and tossed around like a parcel: yummy for those with M/f interests. If only there were some F/f action included, this film would almost have something for everyone.)

Now that I am older and know some more about the anatomical bits and operational dynamics, my fantasies about M/m domination often feature men having sex. Very enjoyable.

[LaJan]

If you're into rough stuff, see the movies Spedders and American Me. The former is very interesting and oftentimes fun movie but it includes an extremely graphic gang rape which is capped off by one of the guys returning to talk. The latter is just about the most intense movie I've seen with men being rough to other men sexually. If you can stomach the gross violence which goes along with all the sex (or just loop the DVD for the "good parts"!), this may be a movie for you.

And in case you're wondering, while I am not gay (or even bi), the scene in Spedders was even exciting to me. LOL!

I add myself to the list of women with fantasies about men dominating men. I revelled in such scenarios long before I had a clue about sex. As long as there were guys who got tied up / scared / imprisoned / enslaved / etc., I did not care much by whom. As long as there was a man who dropped to his knees, I did not care much before whom.

Some contributors to this thread have mentioned movies... I even found the incredibly silly torture scene between Count Rugen and Westley in 'The Princess Bride' quite sexy. Not to mention the first scenes, when Westley gets ordered about by bossy Buttercup and always responds with 'As you wish'. Sigh. (Later she gets kidnapped and tossed around like a parcel: yummy for those with M/f interests. If only there were some F/f action included, this film would almost have something for everyone.)

Now that I am older and know some more about the anatomical bits and operational dynamics, my fantasies about M/m domination often feature men having sex. Very enjoyable.

[ProjectEuropa]

I'm curious about what kind of bdsm related fantasies people had, before they learned anything about bdsm from outside sources.

At junior school every year we had a May Queen Festival which involved dancing round the May pole amongst other pagan inherited activites. I remember endlessly imagining Linda, a girl the same age as me from next door being tied to the pole while I danced round it. She had been going through a phase of insisting on showing me her genitals and I used to study them with intense curiousity in the same way I would study insects or anything else that is fascinating to a boy of seven or eight. To the alarm of my mother I started drawing pictures of girls naked from the waist down tied to a pole being eaten or mutilated in the crouch area. My mother thought she had raised a psycho but I think it was just a boy's curiousity at wanting to take something apart to find out how it worked. I was certainly clueless that the female pudendum was an entrance to a fleshy cavity. However I did have an intense feeling about the experience which I now recognize as sexual.

[Ranai]

LaJan,
Thank you for the recommendations. I will try if I can get hold of these movies next time the mood takes me for rough sex between men - sounds very interesting.
Gross violence in films can at times spoil my enjoyment. My usual strategy is to pull myself temporarily out of the illusion and think things like 'Great actors, great photography, great make-up department!'.

Project Europa,
Seems like you placed your fantasy in a very adequate context. Apart from being handy for tying someone up, what better sexual symbol is there than a May pole...

[ProjectEuropa]

Project Europa,
Seems like you placed your fantasy in a very adequate context. Apart from being handy for tying someone up, what better sexual symbol is there than a May pole...

Actually, I missed the significance. No wonder she grew out of the phase of exposing herself to me. She obviously realised she was wasting her time!

[chromedome11]

I even found the incredibly silly torture scene between Count Rugen and Westley in 'The Princess Bride' quite sexy.

Ah, The Princess Bride. One of the best cult movies ever. A great conversation starter with women (as more women like it than men in my experience) is to quote one of the lines, as in "My name is Inigo Montoya, you killed my father, prepare to die."

You'll be conversing (or better) for the rest of the night.

[MasterRJ]

I dunno...I thought that was about the funniest movie I've ever seen...

[miloura dae]

A few of my early fantasies besides being manipulated by about 5 guys started after watching that really corn-ballish movie Killer Clowns From Outerspace. The clowns had these really long fingers/nails,and pointy long
tongues, I fantsized about those tongues protruding places I had no experience with..

[Ranai]

Killer Clowns From Outerspace

Hehe. I believe even a bunch of Rampant Clowns From Planet Earth would make me take to my heels. :exit:

The long tongues idea is appealing though. What do they teach them at the Cosmic Fools' Guild? Astrolingus?


The Princess Bride

Yes, Inigo's long-winded revenge! And the duel on the cliffs of insanity. I think it is the most extravagant fencing scene I have ever seen. 'I am not left-handed either.' :sword:


And the defeated Inigo falling on his knees to receive the fatal blow... Hot. Very hot.

[miscolata]

The Princess Bride

Yes, Inigo's long-winded revenge! And the duel on the cliffs of insanity. I think it is the most extravagant fencing scene I have ever seen. 'I am not left-handed either.' :sword:


And the defeated Inigo falling on his knees to receive the fatal blow... Hot. Very hot.

Not to mention Buttercup spends an awful lot of the first half of the movie tied up and blindfolded...

My obscure movie moment that led to endless fantasies was in "Young Sherlock Holmes". It's been a while, but as i remember it Young Sherlock and Watson come up against an Egyptian cult who are kidnapping young girls and sacrificing them to their gods. The method of sacrifice involved drugging the girl to subdue her, dressing her up in a sexy little Egyptian princess/slave costume and wrapping her up tight like a mummy (with a great closeup of the fear in her eyes where she starts to come to as the last bandage is wrapped around her head). She was then put in a sarcophogus and, as she struggled and screamed in her bondage, the sarcophogus was filled with molten wax - killing her and preserving her at the same time. All this is of course done in an underground temple setting with lots of men watching and chanting.

Sometimes it amazes me what they put in kid's films.

[Ranai]

What a wonderfully exotic setting for an erotic fantasy. Welcome to the forums, miscolata.

Should you have a continued interest in mummification, here is a free site: Gromet's Plaza. Some neat mummy pics, and also knowhow & technique.

[miscolata]

What a wonderfully exotic setting for an erotic fantasy. Welcome to the forums, miscolata.

Should you have a continued interest in mummification, here is a free site: Gromet's Plaza. Some neat mummy pics, and also knowhow & technique.

Thanks for the welcome and the link Ranai

[AndrewBlack]

Not to mention Buttercup spends an awful lot of the first half of the movie tied up and blindfolded...

My obscure movie moment that led to endless fantasies was in "Young Sherlock Holmes". It's been a while, but as i remember it Young Sherlock and Watson come up against an Egyptian cult who are kidnapping young girls and sacrificing them to their gods. The method of sacrifice involved drugging the girl to subdue her, dressing her up in a sexy little Egyptian princess/slave costume and wrapping her up tight like a mummy (with a great closeup of the fear in her eyes where she starts to come to as the last bandage is wrapped around her head). She was then put in a sarcophogus and, as she struggled and screamed in her bondage, the sarcophogus was filled with molten wax - killing her and preserving her at the same time. All this is of course done in an underground temple setting with lots of men watching and chanting.

Sometimes it amazes me what they put in kid's films.

Yes, It's like they've developed a pervert factory. Let the good work continue!

[Ranai]

~~ ¡Bump! ~~

An invitation to new, and not so new members, because I really like this thread:

Would you like to contribute something from your memories, about early BDSM related fantasies you had?

[Kaori-san]

Hmm... early fantasies... well.. has anyone ever seen the Rescuers Down Under, well its a cartoon movie. There was always this one part where an albatros was being bound up and these female mice dressed as nurses tried to make him better with injections and such.

I always loved that scene, Beauty and the Beast was good too, the idea of being imprisoned by an evil monster such fun really.. I used to cry when he changed into the nice when I was little

["Roof"]

I'm curious about what kind of bdsm related fantasies people had, before they learned anything about bdsm from outside sources. For example, in my very early teens, I had a fantasy about women in bikinis being tormented by gremlin-like creatures. I can't recall most of the details anymore, but I do remember that the cretures used the women as furniture, and stuffed various gooey substances down their bikini bottems. There was no nudity. I had PG-13 fantasies back then.

My earliest bdsm fantasy was: Pretty girls (who were smug & stuck-up until the "attitude adjustment") painfully being forced to sexually service the boys whose sexual attentions got no-where previously.