Why did you join this Forum?

[Ozme52]

You sure said a mouthful there concretesub!

Well put- that's a niggling thing I find on some sites, the 'I am Dom- hear me roar' sort of person.
We must never forget we are dealing with people, we're not actors playing a part. We're all people, with feelings & different needs- whether Dom or sub.

Tojo

Yep <<== click

[Aesop]

I joined because I want to interact with others like myself. I stay because this place seems to have less Doms that get so wrapped up in being Dominants/Masters that they forget to be people.

A salute to Y/y'all.

Yeah we are a pretty realistic bunch. You won't see a lot of the normal net crap round these parts. Welcome and have fun.

[submissivewife]

Welcome Concretesub....hope you enjoy.

[VixeyandPhoenix]

We did a google search for bondage forums and this was the most attractive of the first page. We liked what we saw from our intitial glance at the site. We think that we have outgrown our last adult forum. People there seemed more interested in flirting than having something interesting to say, it was all about post count equalling popularity. That being said, we fit in better with people who live the lifestyle rather than people who live online. While we may not spend a lot of time here, we hope that what we contribute will be appreciated by all and we are certain that we will enjoy what we gain here.

[Camellight]

Hi, I am new to the site, and I've actually never really been on forums before. I joined because people here openly talk about topics that intrest me, an avenue that i haven't found anywhere else besides the internet. I hope my ignorance about forums doesnt piss anyone off, but i think if im just polite it shouldnt be a problem here

[Sklaventreiber]

Hi, I am new to the site, and I've actually never really been on forums before. I joined because people here openly talk about topics that intrest me, an avenue that i haven't found anywhere else besides the internet. I hope my ignorance about forums doesnt piss anyone off, but i think if im just polite it shouldnt be a problem here

You should enjoy the forums.

I am curious as to why you would think we would some how be pissed off...if anything, we welcome your input, and are happy to help you grow in your interests.

[Ozme52]

That's what makes this forum work. We all seem to be more interested in the subject than in creating some kind of clique. I've joined a few forums that were clique-bound.

Here, no one minds going over the basics with people new to the forum nor with people new to the lifestyle.

It's comfortable here.


Welcom camellight.

[slb_b2000]

Helllllppp everyone? I am a newbie to the lifestyle and trying to understand this wonderful Man I met online, and we are 900 miles apart although it doesn't feel like it when we are on the phone. Anyway, I am trying to get over the jealousy I feel when he talks about his past experiences with women. He feels like I am judging him and is upset and I being new am trying to not make him feel that way? Help me, I am sick to my stomach that he is so hurt, and how can I make him understand?

[subdude05]

Welcome slb_b2000, here you will find lots of usefull information, feel free to ask any questions in the forums, im sure someone can help.

Good luck finding what you are looking for,

Subdude05

[Tojo]

Helllllppp everyone? I am a newbie to the lifestyle and trying to understand this wonderful Man I met online, and we are 900 miles apart although it doesn't feel like it when we are on the phone. Anyway, I am trying to get over the jealousy I feel when he talks about his past experiences with women. He feels like I am judging him and is upset and I being new am trying to not make him feel that way? Help me, I am sick to my stomach that he is so hurt, and how can I make him understand?

Easy girl- this stuff is meant to be fun! Just slow down & get to know him a bit, before jumping right in.

If he doesn't like you being jealous, maybe he shouldn't talk about other women??

If you want to know things, you'll have to give us a bit more information & ask specific questions. All relationships are different, regardless of what the so-called experts may say. You just have to find what works for you- that's something you have to work out with your new chap!

All said & done, it's not worth getting sick over.

Tojo

[bad_duck]

Well i joined to learn. you see my girlfriend and i are very intrested in bdsm and want to learn safe ways to proceed in the experiance. can you give us any pointers.

Bad_Duck

[Aesop]

We can try. What kind of pointers are you looking for?

[subdude05]

Welcome, Bad Duck, i know of lots of threads in knowledge base and general talk that deal with safety and rough guidelines, and theres loads of stuff for and by people who are new to the scean.
Good luck and most of all have fun.
Subdude05

[little_rose]

Hi,
Just wanted to reply to the original question-
I joined the forum cuz i was looking for fiction on the net, which i found in the extensive library, yay But, in doing so, I somehow stumbled across the forum. I don't post much at all, but i love the fact that loads of people do, and also there are some regulars who contribute loads. It's great that there is a whole wealth of topics and obviously lots of interest in it;0
I keep coming back- because I have not found another place where people are so open about their sexual tastes, and where it is OKAY to be different, and explore that difference. I love it here.

[submissivewife]

little_rose I am glad you are comfortable here. I too took a while on getting around to posting much here but have been having fun since I decided to go for it.....I love it here as well.

[EnolaGay]

Just to see what other people are "into" im new to the whole community. And didnt realise there were names for subs and dommes. And that certain things I like were fettishes. (sorry about my spelling its awful) So im a bit too innocent when it comes to talking about it, im hoping you guys will be kind and patient.

[Tojo]

Hi & welcome EG- thanks for introducing yourself.

I'm sure there's a few patient people here, just ignore the ones that aren't.

Don't be afraid to ask questions, or PM likely people, we're all learning.

Enjoy.

Tojo

[submissivewife]

Just to see what other people are "into" im new to the whole community. And didnt realise there were names for subs and dommes. And that certain things I like were fettishes. (sorry about my spelling its awful) So im a bit too innocent when it comes to talking about it, im hoping you guys will be kind and patient.

Welcome to the lifestyle EnolaGay. Don't be afraid to share your fears and ideas. Many are here to help you out and answer your questions.

[Ozme52]

No worries EG. I'm sure before too long you'll become comfortable here. If you've looked around, there's not a lot of impatience here, so join in. Before too long you'll be "dabomb" here.

[EnolaGay]

I like the "dad joke".
I had a flat mate called Bertie Basset but we had to chuck him out becuse he was up to....
allsorts!
That was my dads favorate joke for a long time, it makes me smile.

[subdude05]

Welcome EnolaGay, dont worry about your spelling, mines awfull too.

Have fun

Subdude05

[_ID_]

Joined to learn more. simple as that.

[HDuesler]

I came to this forum because I am pretty new to the lifestyle and I am trying to educate myself. It also helps to see I am not alone. I see a lot of myself in many peoples stories. I could also use some one to talk to who understands my thoughts and feelings as well as who will give me sound advice.

[Tojo]

I'm all ears HDuesler, PM me anytime you want-

Tojo

[submissivewife]

HDuesler and IDCrewDawg- don't be shy there a many here who are very willing and able to answer your questions. Enjoy!

[Aesop]

Welcome to the forums folks.

[ticklish]

I joined to learn more about this lifestyle. I had heard of it before, but never really understood it. I keep coming back for the online friendships.

[Tojo]

Welcome ticklish- yes those online friendships can be reallll nice.


I've been interested in this stuff most of my life, & still don't really understand it!

Hope you have a great time here.

Tojo

[Uncle_Ed]

Hi!

In the words of the Bishop:

I'm here to let my altar ego run loose.

[cariad]

Why did I come in the first place - because Uncle Ed kept talking about the place.

Why have I stayed - because he has made it past 150 and I have not. I am not going to let him have that one over me. And having a lot of fun in the process.