If you disrespect chat, you will be banned.
This statement I think is rather telling. Shouldn't the chat follow the same rules of flaming as the forms, since they are affiliated however separate. Banning a person simply because they don't respect is rather heavy handed I believe. I think disrespect, and flaming are different things altogether. God knows I have been disrespectful on here, but have avoided flaming (as far as I see it). Even with that, I haven't been banned, nor warned about my behavior. From the way I read the post, had I done the same thing in the chat room, I would have been banned by now.

Perhaps this thread will be an eye opener for the overall admin of the domain bdsmlibrary.com