question about subdrop

[Sir_Russell]

Rhabbi were you the Dom here?

I have a little different outlook on this, subdrop can be hard and prolonged if you went too far and are very new to this. The fact is that some feel that it isn't right, demeaning, etc. even though they crave it. Get your head right and take it slowly or don't do it.

I have made the mistake of taking a lady to far too fast and saw this up close.

[kestrel]

Rhabbi were you the Dom here?

I have a little different outlook on this, subdrop can be hard and prolonged if you went too far and are very new to this. The fact is that some feel that it isn't right, demeaning, etc. even though they crave it. Get your head right and take it slowly or don't do it.

I have made the mistake of taking a lady to far too fast and saw this up close.

I have been taken too far and the result was far from pretty. It was one of the hardest things I have ever been through because not only did I drop seriously hard, I didn't know what was happening at the time and was no where near the One that caused it. I was uneducated and had no clue what was happening to me and had no one I trusted to turn to to ask about it. This is why I encourage open and honest communication at all times, it's a must and without it things like this do happen.