What do you find humiliating?

[Sir_Russell]

They were mostly her friends with a couple of them that later became people I liked. As to what happened none of them were in the group that came out to make the punishment complete.

trish (not her real name but she was in the photo with me in self potrait thread) told several of the women in her circle what we were.

Funny how that changed their view of me and I did get offers from some of them that would not have been correct to accept. It seems that once it is out in the open that a lot of women that act disgusted by it in groups find any chance they can to touch me, even young ones the last time I was outed

[Isabelle90]

Funny how that changed their view of me and I did get offers from some of them that would not have been correct to accept. It seems that once it is out in the open that a lot of women that act disgusted by it in groups find any chance they can to touch me, even young ones the last time I was outed

There's just something about a dominant male.

[scavanger]

personally I have always found that the physical humiliation that I would recieve has been more "pleasurable" then the verbal, however that is not to say the verbal humiliation hasn't been pleasurable, just slightly less so.

[wolfpup]

I think I would find physical humiliation the worst, expecially since I"m like super self consious

[tessa]

I had an epiphany while addressing this topic on another board...

The first part is that humiliation is to bondage/discipline/impact play as mental domination is to physical domination.

The second part is that humiliation has the same root meaning as humility... which is to be humble. It is the ultimate act of mental submission to be humbled before your dominant.

Some doms can do that with positions (such as Russell and myself) and some do that with harsh words, titles, and demeaning tasks. Some subs find the simple act of being put across the knee to be extremely humiliating. Some by writing on their bodies.

We all have our own idea of what is and isn't humiliating, but humiliation play is no more and no less than another means to the same end.

There are many paths and each journey is worthy of our attention.

~stands and applauds~ Brilliant, Mr. Oz.