Question about "true" submissivness

[bip0lar]

i'll go with what i've read countless times and agree with completely. When somebody starts with 'you're not a true submissive when...' then the argument is not going to be exactly valid. Nonetheless, no, i wouldn't change my political or religious views because i would be told to do so. I would consider it with the proper debate and valid arguments, and if i was persuaded, then yes; but no, if my Dominant demanded that kind of change from me i'm not sure i'd be able to comply just because he said so-- from an internal ethical point of view.
Furthermore, i'd like to think that a Dominant would not demand such a thing of me; after all, as his submissive, i too have values of my own which i cherish and believe in.
I'm pretty sure there's couples [both vanilla and D/s] that clash --at least on political if not on religious views. One can either agree to disagree, ignore the topic completely, take it up playfully and have 'arguments' which both parties know they won't agree on but still have fun challenging one another mentally and so on and so forth, and if in the end it's too important for both to let go, then it's up to the couple what to do.
uhm, sorry if i got off topic, but yeh, you get what i mean.

[SilvieA]

i'll go with what i've read countless times and agree with completely. When somebody starts with 'you're not a true submissive when...' then the argument is not going to be exactly valid. Nonetheless, no, i wouldn't change my political or religious views because i would be told to do so. I would consider it with the proper debate and valid arguments, and if i was persuaded, then yes; but no, if my Dominant demanded that kind of change from me i'm not sure i'd be able to comply just because he said so-- from an internal ethical point of view.
Furthermore, i'd like to think that a Dominant would not demand such a thing of me; after all, as his submissive, i too have values of my own which i cherish and believe in.
I'm pretty sure there's couples [both vanilla and D/s] that clash --at least on political if not on religious views. One can either agree to disagree, ignore the topic completely, take it up playfully and have 'arguments' which both parties know they won't agree on but still have fun challenging one another mentally and so on and so forth, and if in the end it's too important for both to let go, then it's up to the couple what to do.
uhm, sorry if i got off topic, but yeh, you get what i mean.

... yeah, well written... you hit the nail right on the head!