As a sub, how do you say no respectfully?

[suejean]

i probably should not be opening my mouth so soon after joining, but i'm going to anyway, sorry. Basically if a relationship doesn't suit you well enough walk out of it, be tough on yourself, if your needs aren't met, get out. You need to negotiate and agree limits and ,em, themes?

A dom/me who is for example into sharing you might well not suit a sub seeking someone into intimate fantasy play (a rubbish example, sorry.) point is don't be a slapper wait for one u really get on with, don't just go with anyone. If it doesn't ring your bell, leave the relationship. Sorry, suejean

[BelovedPet]

i probably should not be opening my mouth so soon after joining, but i'm going to anyway, sorry. Basically if a relationship doesn't suit you well enough walk out of it, be tough on yourself, if your needs aren't met, get out. You need to negotiate and agree limits and ,em, themes?

A dom/me who is for example into sharing you might well not suit a sub seeking someone into intimate fantasy play (a rubbish example, sorry.) point is don't be a slapper wait for one u really get on with, don't just go with anyone. If it doesn't ring your bell, leave the relationship. Sorry, suejean

Thanks suejean, but it's not that serious of an issue. We're happily married and plan on staying that way, we just hit a little bump in the road. Welcome to the library and keep posting.

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