Just words?

[DowntownAmber]

Awww.... DA, I LOVE being called stupid and worthless! :-P I think words like that help with dehumanization and feeling like an object. I love to feel like property, only an object owned by my Master for His amusement.

And in terms of vestiges of truth- if you need to feel some truth behind a statement for it to be more powerful- I think it is possible with these types of words. For instance, the word "stupid", besides the general connotation, if I really need to feel some truth behind it I will think of how stupid it is considered, as a woman, to stay with a man that beats and degrades you. Often with enough abuse and humiliation of that kind combined, with my thoughts about its vestiges of truth- I can be brought to tears. Delicious.

Just another case of "to each his own." If a Dom were to call me stupid, for example, I would be inclined to pause mid-scene, raise an eyebrow, and start giggling hysterically while pointing out my SAT score at the very least. I just need to dabble in reality, I suppose.

[StormKat]

Just another case of "to each his own." If a Dom were to call me stupid, for example, I would be inclined to pause mid-scene, raise an eyebrow, and start giggling hysterically while pointing out my SAT score at the very least. I just need to dabble in reality, I suppose.

I'm totally with you on this one! I'm not stupid or dumb or worthless or any such adjective & saying that I am would just piss me off. Now there are a very select few guys who can get away with calling me a slut because for them, well, I'll be one & very happily. It's not humiliating when it's true . But I'd never take it from anyone else.