Advice! I'm lost on this one, lol

[shayna{L_D}]

i'm afraid when i leave in the summer she's not going to have much of a support system; she's surrounded by conservative thinking, and while we work in the least conservative part of it all, i still wouldn't say the community is radically accepting. Any advice would be super appreciated =)

you just gave yourself advice right there. If she is just coming outa the closet and she is newly into BDSM, then thats a double virgin whammy. Sadly its hard for virgins to let go. and if you are leaving in the summer, then you better be perpared for her to be c l i n g y!

are you even into her at all?

[thegirlwonder]

are you even into her at all?

Um, besides the fact that i'm thoroughly taken XD-- but no, not really. i mean she's pretty and all... but no, lol.



And i suppose that's true sati... but at the same time am i supposed to be like "Tada! This is BDSM; i know you're having a hard time with the whole gay thing, but here's something even less socially acceptable" ?! LoL, i just can't find a scenario in my head where that would go smoothly! Where do you start?