I'm trying to be an active male sub. It is hard out here, because SO many people want to be Dom's of females.

I think it's because male is "normally" the dominate role thats to society today, so when a inexperianced guy has to pick his role, 9/10 they will not choose sub, as it's "un-manly". Same with girls, I see a lot of female subs, who would be Domme's except for some reason, they think they can't be.