Quote Originally Posted by ian 2411 View Post
Fem Domme come in all ways and they do not wear a lable, because most dont know they are Domme until their chance comes along.
Quote Originally Posted by thir View Post
Why would you think that?
I didn’t explain myself very clearly and I apologise for that, I was in fact referring to Domme’s in vanilla marriages. While writing my BDSM books I try to keep the theme to scenarios that take place in real life, and then I place the most extreme consequences that could possibly take place. But most of the starts to my book are based on real life experiences, and although they are not my experiences they are as real as you would like to believe. I get my ideas from forums in magazines, reader’s letters of their journey over to the dark side. I have to admit that possibly 50% should be on a wish list, but there are a few that hit home, and it is those few that I work on. I have had two wives and I loved them both, the latter more than the first, but neither was Domme before marriage, but after a time their intentions were made known. The first wife went to extreme to show that she was Domme, but it never took place over night, and I knew that she was never like that before marriage. It was caused by talking to her friends saying things to her, and because I let her get away with little things, the power went to her head. As I did explain, Domme’s do not wear a label, and that is a fact, and I know from experience that a good Fem/Domme is very hard to find, and if you are looking for a certain type then it is almost impossible. I was very lucky in my second marriage that I found both, and it was all done so subtle that it worked, and at no time were my limits breached, and once again it was because I allowed her to take charge. What took place between my Mistress wife and I will never be open to discussion, because she passed away two years ago and I will never replace her.

Regards ian 2411